My next door neighbor Upendo has three
boys: Derrick, Dennis and Davis. My academic mistress has a girl and
a boy: Ester and Elia. The swahili/english teacher has a boy and a
girl: Frankie and Faradja. The school secretary has only a girl but
her name is Brightness Bahati Bange. I have two students who sit
right next to each other whose names are Katemi Katemi and Juma Juma.
In the classroom next door there is Abhassan Hassan, Nock Nock and
Raymond Romance. There is Mr. Tayari, whose name means Mr. Ready and
of course I round out the the hilarity by having the funniest
possible name for the only white teacher in sixteen hundred square
kilometers.
Of Upendo's boys Derrick is the
oldest: seven and very solemn. I like to ask him how his problems are
(a common greeting here) because he always looks so world weary when
he says that they are fine. He is the most respectful, well-behaved
seven-year-old I have ever met too. He is enormously kind to his
younger brother, very respectful with my things when he comes over to
play and how excited he gets when he sees his mom and dad when they
come back from work is frankly touching.
Davis is not quite a month old and
obviously excruciatingly adorable. He and Upendo are spending her
maternity leave lying together in bed almost all day, nursing,
sleeping and snuggling. I've seen them apart exactly once so far. But
they welcome visitors at any time of day and he is developing quite a
bag of ticks to entertain. So far he can open his eyes all the way,
yawn, grab your fingers, mew softly, smile and sigh.
But however much I love Derrick and
Davis, Dennis is my favorite child in the world. He and I both
arrived in Sadani on the 24th of November but his birthday
is exactly one year before the day I moved in. Dennis isn't an angel
like Derrick. He's a little brother and a little spoiled by Derrick,
who almost always lets him have his way. He's only just learning to
talk and sometimes he comes over while I'm working to play various
games with me. In one game we call each others names for an extended
periods of time in various emphatic ways: “Neva.” “Dennie.”
“NEVA!” “DENNIE!” “Neva!” “Dennie!” “Neva.”
“Dennie.” “Nevaaaaaaa.” “Dennnnnnnnnnie.” and so
on. In another he touches his nose and I make a beeping noise until
he stops or until I run out of breath. In another he points at
various things and asks “what?” and I tell him the word for it.
In another he sits on my chest and we roar at each other with lions.
In another he simply tries to knock the breath out of me while I lie
on the floor by sitting on my stomach as hard as he can. For some
reason I am actually a huge fan of that last one.
Oh, Darlin', I can't feel if it is bitter or sweet to read this and not to actually sit in a chair in your living room and laugh. Is there a chair in your living room?
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