Termite Day

So this yesterday morning I woke up and found my living room floor crawling with insects. A particularly unpleasant experience since there are no lights in my house and I found this out by stumbling onto a couple of them on my way to open a window. But things like that have long ceased to bother me and I had already cavalierly swept them outside and started cooking breakfast when my phone rang.

“Geneva come to the water spout. I want to show you something?”

“Okay, coming.”

What Mama Benny wants me to see is the two enormous buckets of the same insects I just got rid of that she and the librarian have gathered up in the girl's dormitory and are washing the wings off of. Ah yes... I had forgotten that the mating/flying stage of the termite life cycle (arguably the grossest stage) is a delicacy in Tanzanian cuisine. The occasional days when they all spring forth from the damp earth like a zombie hoard are almost holidays. Neither Mama Benny or the librarian do much work and even my grading is periodically interrupted when I am called to the school kitchen (a shack where the school lunches are prepared in pots the size of small hot tubs) to look at something particularly interesting. Maybe its just that Christmas is looming.

The strangest thing about the day, except for the half pound of bugs in a frying pan, is how I behaved like a tourist in my own village. I squirmed, giggled and finally went to get my camera to document the cooking. I made five or six tentative gestures to my mouth with the first one before finally popping it in (Simon, watching me do this, remarks “Madam you are funny!” and Elisius shouts out “Don't eat them Madam! They are bugs!” before breaking into laughter).

The second strangest thing is how delicious termites actually are. They are nice and fatty (you don't even need to add any oil to the pot to cook them), the perfect size for snacking and they have a nice crunch but it's the flavor that really make them. Not exactly spicy but there is a definite zest to them: the closest thing I can think of is puffed pork cracklin's. I think they could catch on.

Anyway...pictures:

 

Mabadiliko Yanaweza/ Change is Possible Boys Conference

The first official Boys Empowerment Conference in Iringa Region Tanzania happened this year the week after Thanksgiving. If you notice a peculiar upswing in your mood (or possibly your libido) that week its likely it was due to the psychic energy of the forty teenage boys we crowded into a small conference room in a Catholic Mission just outside of Mafinga to talk about HIV/AIDS, alcohol and drugs, fatherhood , gender versus sex, gender roles, condoms, masturbation and of course girls, girls, girls, girls! 

It was our second gender empowerment conference in the region (Girl's Empowerment happened in June) and so of course it was a study in contrasts. The essentials were still there: a talent show (including a skit that could have been a three act opera and half a dozen rap songs), opening and closing speeches, certificates of completion, sports and games, and a question and answer session that covered a shocking amount of ground. But in a lot of ways it was really different.

The Girls Conference was an amazing, transformative, near-spiritual experience that culminated in a dance party the likes of which will never be seen again. It was also the logistical equivalent of a week-long game of a whack-a-mole. I am happy to say that Peace Corps volunteers are pretty quick studies though. Boy's conference was exhausting, but it wasn't quite the mad dash we all knew it could have easily been. We also moved away from having a lot of guest speakers and let our Tanzanian “Counter Parts,” the friends and colleagues we brought with us from our village do most of the heavy lifting. 

But of course the biggest difference, no matter how much we talk about gender equality, was that we were dealing with boys and not girls. Tanzanian boys have a wonderful assertiveness and confidence. Not to say that the girls don't have it at all but they don't have it in the metric tons, cartloads, bushels and barrels like the boys do. The boys have machismo, panache and the ability to ask the question “how much masturbation is too much masturbation?” with a completely straight face. It's impossible not to love them for it.

Enjoy some pics below: 

Maxing and relaxing outside after a hard day's condom demonstration.

Can you name all the parts of the penis? In Swahili? These boys can.

The whole gang!

What's in a name?

My next door neighbor Upendo has three boys: Derrick, Dennis and Davis. My academic mistress has a girl and a boy: Ester and Elia. The swahili/english teacher has a boy and a girl: Frankie and Faradja. The school secretary has only a girl but her name is Brightness Bahati Bange. I have two students who sit right next to each other whose names are Katemi Katemi and Juma Juma. In the classroom next door there is Abhassan Hassan, Nock Nock and Raymond Romance. There is Mr. Tayari, whose name means Mr. Ready and of course I round out the the hilarity by having the funniest possible name for the only white teacher in sixteen hundred square kilometers. 

Of Upendo's boys Derrick is the oldest: seven and very solemn. I like to ask him how his problems are (a common greeting here) because he always looks so world weary when he says that they are fine. He is the most respectful, well-behaved seven-year-old I have ever met too. He is enormously kind to his younger brother, very respectful with my things when he comes over to play and how excited he gets when he sees his mom and dad when they come back from work is frankly touching. 

Davis is not quite a month old and obviously excruciatingly adorable. He and Upendo are spending her maternity leave lying together in bed almost all day, nursing, sleeping and snuggling. I've seen them apart exactly once so far. But they welcome visitors at any time of day and he is developing quite a bag of ticks to entertain. So far he can open his eyes all the way, yawn, grab your fingers, mew softly, smile and sigh.

But however much I love Derrick and Davis, Dennis is my favorite child in the world. He and I both arrived in Sadani on the 24^th of November but his birthday is exactly one year before the day I moved in. Dennis isn't an angel like Derrick. He's a little brother and a little spoiled by Derrick, who almost always lets him have his way. He's only just learning to talk and sometimes he comes over while I'm working to play various games with me. In one game we call each others names for an extended periods of time in various emphatic ways: “Neva.” “Dennie.” “NEVA!” “DENNIE!” “Neva!” “Dennie!” “Neva.” “Dennie.” “Nevaaaaaaa.” “Dennnnnnnnnnie.” and so on. In another he touches his nose and I make a beeping noise until he stops or until I run out of breath. In another he points at various things and asks “what?” and I tell him the word for it. In another he sits on my chest and we roar at each other with lions. In another he simply tries to knock the breath out of me while I lie on the floor by sitting on my stomach as hard as he can. For some reason I am actually a huge fan of that last one.

Fire!

The Rolling Stones are my go-to soldering artist. I was singing Honky Tonk Woman pretty loudly when Hussein knocked on my office door. He raised his eyebrows for just a fraction of a second but I just smiled placidly back. There is no way he's going to catch me being embarrassed.

“Afternoon Madam.”

“Good afternoon Hussein, how are you?”
“I am fine. How are you too?”
“I am just fine. How may I help you?” I pronounce every word as slowly as I can when I speak to my students. Hussein is one of my best students and his English is very good but he still appreciates it when I use what volunteers call “special English.” Right now there is a little hue and cry about introducing the term “level-appropriate English” instead but I'm keeping special English. It makes me feel like it's the nice English my grandmother gave me and that I only get out on Thanksgiving.

“Yes Madam. I wish to do the practical about which we were discussing earlier.”

He handed me the procedure he had copied down in his meticulous handwriting and I skimmed it. Its a chemistry practical and I understood very little of the theoretical basis but the experiment itself seemed simple enough. The trick was that we need to compare the reactions of two chemicals and we had only one. I had called another Iringa volunteer the day before and he'd told me that we could make the other by slowly heating something we had. “It should turn white. If it turns black you've irreversibly made blah blah blah blah blah...” He'd said. “But if you heat it gently you should have no problems.”

I fetched the chemical and got Hussein the bottle of Motapoa and a bottle cap to pour it into as well as the matches. Motapoa is a kind of semi-solid fuel I've never seen anywhere but in Iringa, Tanzania. It is the color of lemon-lime Gatorade, the consistency of sickly snot and has a smell that stings the eyes. But it is much simpler than getting out one of the kerosine stoves and I thought it should give Hussein better control of the heat.

By this time Bahati Joseph had joined us. He and Hussein run practicals together a lot. He isn't a star student like Hussein but he is much more charismatic and he takes his studies very seriously. He has a really deep voice and a lot of confidence. He also picks his nose a lot while looking me straight in the eye, which I have come to find oddly charming. Nose-picking isn't taboo here (sometimes, just to scandalize myself I try to do it while meeting someones eye or in my classroom which I'm pretty sure I am going to regret when I get back to the states) but Bahati really stands out in my mind.

“Afternoon Madam.”

“Good afternoon Bahati. How are you?”

“I am fine. How are you too?”

“I am just fine.”

I repeated the instructions for heating to both of them. Since Bahati's English is slightly worse than Hussein's I slow down even more and I start to think very hard about my word choice. “Are we together?” I asked when I finish at the end.

“Yes Madam.” They both say.

But I have learned to read Bahati's body language fairly well in the last few months and I could tell I'd lost him somewhere. I went over it again in Swahili and he seemed to perk up a little bit.

I went back to soldering, watching them out of the corner of my eye as they work.

Hussein and Bahati are my children. Even though they are my age, both taller then me and I suspect, at the least in Hussein's case, much smarter than me, I feel like their mother. They are so handsome in their school uniforms--white, button-up t-shirts, black pants and shoes-- and they are so serious as they weigh out the chemicals, discussing in Swahili as they do. They look like scientists and when I look them my heart beats a little faster with pride. Some parts of my job are torturous, frustrating and heartbreaking. This is not one of those parts.

I worry about the fumes from the solder. I've been breathing them for hours in this cramped office but now that they're here it seems somehow more dangerous. I want to take it outside but I don't like to leave them alone with a flame so I open all the doors and windows and tell them they must let me know if they start to smell it.

I was back to thinking about soldering when suddenly there is a noise like an enormous fart and both Bahati and Hussein shout. I jerked my head up and found that there was a burning pile of motopoa on the table and on the ground and (thank Jesus) not on either of them. I could see instantly what had happened from the twisted plastic bottle in Hussein's hand. The motopoa had run out in the little soda bottle cap they were using as a stove and they had tried to add more without extinguishing the flame first. The fire had shot up the stream of motopoa into the bottle, causing Hussein to jerk his arm away, spilling it.

For what seems like forever they both looked at me warily as the motopoa smolders on the desk. They expected to be shouted at for this I could tell. A Tanzanian teacher would certainly shout at them, possibly beat them. Instead I laughed. I couldn't help myself. I quickly went to blow out the flames on the table and the floor.

“Well,” I said when nothing is on fire, “today we have become more educated. Now we know something that we should not do with motopoa.”

Bahati laughed a little too but Hussein still looked stricken as they clean up the spill and I helped, giggling to myself. “Madam, why are you laughing at me?” He asked, sounding genuinely hurt.

Instantly I stopped laughing. “Hussein I am not laughing at you.” I said firmly. “I'm laughing at myself. I should have been watching you more closely. You are students and there is no reason you should have known that could happen.”

The next day Bahati and Hussein came back and took the chemicals they'd made to perform the lab. Since none of the chemicals are toxic and there is no heat source in the experiment I let them go by themselves to the lab while I staid in the office to grade the quizzes I gave Form V. About an hour later I hadn't finished but I had gotten bored so I wandered over to the lab to see if they have questions or if everything is going smoothly.

To my surprise it wasn't just Hussein and Bahati who are crowded around the lab bench. About ten other students were watching them as they work. I'm not the only one who has figured out that Hussein is brilliant. For a second I just watched from the door as they watch him work. They were almost completely silent. There were too many of them to comfortably fit around the bench. One of the nearest had been forced to put his head down almost to the lab bench so the student behind him could see better. These are my children and I am so proud of them. They're so smart and so dedicated and when they help each other it almost breaks my heart with how sweet it is.

I think I am going to try to figure out how to download a video from Youtube of someone pouring gasoline onto a flame and it shooting up into the gas can. I bet Hussein would like to see that.

Speaking of fire... here's a video of my next door neighbor burning her corn fields!

The toughest rat around

I had just beat one of my duffel bags for half an hour with a shoe and the rat inside was still alive when Rahema knocked on my door. For a while I had thought about letting him out and letting him run away while I shouted, “okay...okay little buddy that was impressive.” But I'd only poison him later. I really didn't want him breeding more superrats in my kitchen. So I opened up the zipper a sliver and dropped in two pieces of poisoned banana and closed it with the luggage lock.

I had also considered inviting one of the boys from the dormitory to open up the bag and hack him to death with a hoe. But the duffel bag is where I keep my emergency stash of packets of cheap gin. No, the real solution was the poison. I'd thrown another shoe at him that morning several times, chasing him out of his hiding place first by whipping a bright african-print cloth at where I thought he was. But he'd only run back into my spare bedroom and into the duffel bag and I'd had to go to parade at school. The poison or a cat. I'd gotten a cat for a few months and he had been great. He'd killed five rats that I'd seen him eat (and one song bird that he'd chased all over my living room and finally devoured under my couch because I gave up on chasing him out). But he'd lost an eye and subsequently his life probably to one of the mangy, wild dogs circling my house at night. It hadn't felt right to replace him and I was still insisting to Mama Benny that he'd probably just gone to Dar es Salam to greet his parents.

But I picked up the duffel bag and threw it into the back part of my courtyard where no one ever goes but me and let Rahema in.

Rahema is one of my favorite students on campus. We met when I took her to the Iringa girl's conference a few months before and she was the girl who had taken her role as “peer educator” most seriously. Also, for some reason I like that she calls me teacher and not madam, which even after eleven months still makes me feel like I run a whorehouse instead of an advanced physics classroom. She is the student in charge of the food for the boarding students, one of the loudest talkers I have ever met and almost comically fat and short. I am allowed to say that because 1. Tanzanians think of “fat” as a descriptive word like any other and not an insult and 2. her only comment on my photo album was that I had really gotten fat since coming to Tanzania. She presented it as a reason that I should stay in Tanzania forever.

She came in and we sat on the floor. No one sits on my furniture. I am not sure how it's possible or why it's true but it's infinitely more comfortable to spread the cushions on the floor and recline on them. I like to think of this as lending a certain urban and bohemian ambiance to my house. I like to think it makes the mat that is printed to look like tile and the scattered buckets and cardboard boxes used as actual containers seem intentional and ironic.

She wanted to talk about the life skills club we've been trying to start with limited success and our plans for it over the break. Mostly we just look at my photo album and talk about how things are going for her at school. But we do decide to postpone anymore meetings until after the midterm exams and then she presented the idea that we could do something for the form four graduation ceremony, like a song or a skit. I said I'd get her space in the schedule for it and help her choreograph it.

Then we walk up to the football game together and sit on an old dead log and watch the boys play. We talk about her future and what she plans to do in A-level and afterward. We talk about America and her tribe the Wabena. And then we walk back a little before the game ends because she needs to check on the food in the kitchen and I need to get back and start cooking and heating my bathwater.

Rahema is everything that I hope the next generation of Tanzanian women is. She is not exactly a radical departure from the culture and she's the opposite of the archetypal revolutionary. If she went to Hogwarts instead of Sadani Secondary she would be in Hufflepuff for sure, not Gryffindor. But she's incredibly smart and motivated, especially for someone her age. And she's outspoken and strong in this way that frankly leaves me speechless. She knows how to command the men around her in a way that doesn't make them resent her, but love her. She is going to be a great wife and an even better mother someday. I don't think that Rahema would ever burn her bra but I hope she raises daughters who do.

The next morning the rat is still alive (too smart to eat the bananas) so I carry the duffel bag out to the road and let it run out into the bushes, hoping its too far for it come back to my house.

Photos since the last post

Tumaini and the girls from the dormitory cook for a party we had. That first big pot is just a huge vat of oil that not a single thing we ate didn't go into.

This is the party we were cooking for above. Couldn't figure out how to work my camera but I like this picture. The woman whose face you can see is my adorable secondmaster's wife Mama Grayson.

Grayson is just the cutest. Especially when he wears this coat when it's like 70 degrees out.

My livingroom!

View out my door into the courtyard.

This is what my window looked like a couple of months ago. There is now corn as high as an elephants eye all the way down to the river.

Just rubbing it in a little bit...

The view from my door looking out towards the school.

My courtyard. The door goes to my kitchen and back behind the wall are my bathroom and toilet.

More of the Sadani Secondary School.

Every morning the whole school lines up around the flagpole to do parade and sing the national anthem.

The staff offices

More of the staff offices

One of my classrooms. It's usually much neater but its post-finals so kind of a mess.

Again...sort of in a post-finals mess.

The front of my house seen from the school.

Hi mom and dad! Don't pretend like this post isn't just for you. No one else is REALLY interested in what my courtyard looks like and I know it. Love your guts!

Let's talk about kids...

I can't tell who is more obsessed with whom...me or the Tanzanian kids.

It takes a while to notice this specific difference because so much here is different; and pointing out one difference seems...silly. But after a while it starts to dawn on you that a huge differences between the US and TZ is the number of children.

Most people I know in my village still make a living from farming. Even the teachers here all have farms on the school property. Two kids is almost unreasonably small (not nearly enough to help with a farm) and so there are kids everywhere and they do the absolute funniest, cutest and weirdest things you can imagine. Some of the village kids, the young ones who have never seen a white person before, burst into tears when they see me. This is my least favorite. Their mothers mostly think this is hilarious and I guess I understand that it is a little funny. But, secretly, it actually does hurt my feelings.

My next-door neighbor Upendo's littlest Derek (he's one year old) was like this at first; but now we're good friends. Upendo lets me carry him on my back in a sling. Derek has the nicest smile and he loves the game "this little piggie" even if he doesn't speak Kiswahili yet, let alone English. I'm still working on my second master Robert's kid Grayson. He'll come close to me now and he doesn't scream. When he's in a good mood he'll crawl towards me and even let me touch his hands; but he won't let me pick him up. The older village kids stare at me as I walk by and shout "Mzungu! Mzungu! Mzungu!" It translates as "European" but it really just means 'white person'. If I don't respond they get together in a group and chant this at me...which can get surreal.

When we were in training I was walking with my friend Sarah. When some kids chanted "Mzungu!" at us she turned around and haughtily corrected them, saying we were "Wazungu," which means more than one white person instead of just a single white person. She is pretty much famous in my host family for this.

Tanzanian children are, as far as I can tell, the cutest kids in the world. Maybe it's because kids back home didn't pay much attention to me, but I find that I am much more interested in kids here than I ever was in the US. I smile at them; I ask them questions until they run away; I see how close I can get to them without them bursting into tears; and I coo at them in Kiswahili. Kids in the US don't stare and don't point, don't ask rude questions or shout "how are you teacher?" so quickly it sounds like one word or scream in joy and fear when you look at them.

I'm never going to like American kids after this...I've gotten used to being the most exciting things children have seen all day. I'm spoiled rotten.

Also, it should be mentioned: kids here are allowed to ride the motorcycles when they're old enough to hold on (like three years old) and I have to wear a helmet when I ride a bike. All I'm saying is that anyone who tells you that there are rules in Tanzania is lying.